Thursday, November 14, 2019
Your plan to be the on-the-job fab starts with planning your look
Your plan to be the on-the-job fab starts with planning your look Your plan to be the on-the-job fab starts with planning your look Self Assessment Quiz â" True or False: I enjoy feeling frazzled each and every work morning. I have a hard time getting organized. I have clothes I never wear to work because I canât find them, theyâre dirty, or they donât fit. I often hear people say, âYou always look so nice!â or âLook at you! Fashionably meticulous as ever!â I politely thank the person giving the compliment and the closet gods for helping me get outta the house coiffed to a T. But you need to understand something. This look doesnât âjust happen.â It is very carefully thought out and executed.Now to you Millennials who think a clean pair of jeans and t-shirt is âdressing up,â you might take issue with this post. But read it in its entirety, then decide if you need to up your wardrobe game. Casual dressing has become the dress code du jour for offices, but I am old school. Every time I go into a casual work environment where people are walking around in torn sweatshirts and ratty jeans anchored by flip-flops, I just want to pull them to the side and say, âHave some work wardrobe pride, child!â Hereâs the deal. If you want to stand out in what you do, I firmly believe you have to put a bit of self-care into your appearance as well. Especially if you interface with clients or the public. And that takes planning.I plan my entire weekâs wardrobe every Sunday night, but it hasnât always been this way. When I started out in my 20s, rolling out of bed and grabbing the first thing that was clean out of my closet was my go-to-work strategy. It wasnât a good strategy, but at the time, it worked for my party-until-1am-crash-for-five-hours-before-getting-up-and-dressed-for-work life. However, as I climbed up the career ladder, it became more apparent to me that just wearing any old thing didnât make me feel great. And guess what! When I didnât feel optimal, I didnât do optimal work! I clearly am not alone in this regard according to Scientific American, which supports my belief when it cites, âMany studies show that the clothes you wear can affect your mental and physical performance.âAs my jobs changed and began to include face time with board members, elected officials, community leaders, media personalities, clients, and others, my stop-drop-and-roll out of bed dressing strategy no longer worked. If I was going to make a âWOWâ impression at each business function - and yes, that was and continues to be my goal - it became important to plan out each and every outfit because fabulosity doesnât just happen by itself!Planning is a strategy. You may not need to be as obsessive with it as I am - determining in advance every single outfit for the entire week, down to jewelry, shoes, handbags, and undergarments - but I will tell you, it has become a part of my brand. People think because I look a certain way - polished, professional, stylish, upscale - my delivery will match the visual expectations they have set for me. I recently wore a stunning red dress, statement necklace, and matching red stilettoes when speaking on a panel. Afterward, in the ladyâs room, a woman who had attended the session said to me, âThat dress is EVERYTHING! When you w alked on stage, I was so hoping that your delivery was as impressive as your look, and you did not disappoint!â Ha! SCORE!!If you answered âTrueâ to any of the above questions, what does your look say to others about what they can expect from you? Are you interested in positively standing out from the others? Whatâs your unspoken professional brand? If you canât give a positive response to any of these questions, then why not give this advance planning strategy a go this month? You have nothing to lose, really. Take this coming Sunday, and lock yourself in your bedroom. Turn on your most upbeat playlist, and map out what youâre going to wear this week. Determine which shoes need to be repaired. Decide which jeans should be reserved for pizza and beer night with the after-work gang. Consider how youâll keep your professional wardrobe separate from your club wardrobe. Be as precise and meticulous as you can ⦠that means from undies all the way to jewelry and even hair accessories. Hang all the clothes and the accessories on a hanger in your closet. If you wanna get cute and fancy with it, make fun day-of-the-week signs for your hangers so youâll know exactly what you had planned for Monday, Tuesday, and so on.A side benefit to all of this planning: youâll be surprised at how much time youâll have in the morning to get your makeup done at home rather than in the car. Or, youâll find those few extra minutes to make yourself a real breakfast that doesnât come out of a foil wrapper. OR, youâll suddenly have time to actually see what your kids are doing in the morning, rather than yelling at them to âHurry it up!!âBut more importantly, you will feel better and, therefore, perform better. Isnât that ultimately what your on-the-job goal is?Try it on for size, and let me know if you feel a difference.Cheryl Grace is the sassy aunt, best friend, and mentor youâve always needed in your life. The successful jet-setting, global corp orate executive founded the aspirational lifestyle brand Powerful Penny LLC. Her products, workshops and speeches probe, inspire and empower to ensure those who really want to can get to their next level of best. Her blogs on careers, prosperity, relationships, family, looking and living fabulously, and living a five-star life can be found at www.powerfulpenny.com.
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